Get the Clarity You Need to Finally Answer the Question: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
A proven, trauma-informed program trusted by thousands of women to break the cycle of confusion and move forward—with confidence, clarity, and peace.
You’ve spent months—maybe years—trying to figure out whether your marriage can be saved or if it’s time to walk away. You’ve analyzed, rationalized, and hoped things would change… but deep down, you know something has to give.
This self-paced program gives you the guidance, education, and deep inner work you need to make one of the most important decisions of your life—without guilt, fear, or shame.
Inside, you’ll find:
37 expert-led lessons with on-demand videos that walk you step-by-step through every stage of clarity.
Downloadable worksheets and reflection exercises to help you apply what you learn to your unique situation.
Trauma-informed tools and practical strategies to help you see your relationship for what it is—and what it isn’t.
Ongoing support and perspective to help you move forward grounded in truth and self-trust.
Whether you ultimately stay and rebuild or choose to leave, this program will give you the strength and certainty to do it with integrity—and without losing yourself in the process.
“It was the best decision I’ve made in my life so far. I finally found clarity after years of second-guessing myself. The support, confidence, and resources I gained have stayed with me—I still use them to this day.”
"Kate is like a good friend who tells you like it is, no holds barred but in a kind way. It's like having a knowledgeable big sister/girlfriend who is on the other side telling you the stuff that you need to know to get yourself together and move on with your life so you can thrive not just survive. Friends keep saying that they can't believe how calm I am and how much I have already learned from just working my way through the program."
“I joined this course because I was stuck in limbo—and had been for years. Therapy helped, but I still needed more insight and guidance to make a decision that would affect my entire family. What I found was far beyond what I expected. Kate created such a safe, empowering space to face difficult truths, and I’m deeply grateful.”
"Better and worth more than nearly all of the money I've spent in therapy...for real."
"Fuuuuccckkkk you are the fucking guru Jedi mind trick goddess of divorce coaches!!! Put that on your website. That’s my new testimonial."
Kate Anthony is one of the most trusted voices in the divorce and relationship space today. She is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast — the top divorce podcast in the world, with more than 3 million downloads and a New York Times recommendation as a must-listen.
A pioneering thought leader in the field, Kate has redefined how women approach divorce through her suite of transformative coaching programs, courses, and immersive experiences. Her work blends cutting-edge neuroscience, trauma-informed education, and compassionate guidance to help women make one of the most profound and life-changing decisions they will ever face.
Certified as a Domestic Violence Advocate, Co-Parenting Specialist, and High Conflict Divorce Coach, Kate’s work is recognized by professionals and clients alike for its clarity, depth, and unwavering commitment to women’s safety and empowerment. Her influence extends far beyond coaching—informing public conversations about relationships, abuse awareness, and women’s empowerment across major media platforms and professional communities.